Denial and Reward

Divert Life from a momentary LOSTNESS to unexpected arrival of SUCCESS

Behind the denial is a success

Hi! Im Pauline lastra and I am so glad that your here. Well, I really don’t want you to know the smallest thing about myself, it will definitely make you bored. I just want you to know why i came up in doing this blog.

I am an Architect. A Christian. And today are my everything.

I am a present focused person. This is one of the many personality traits that make up who I am and distinguish me from one another.  Well, yeah I know what you are thinking, but don’t get it wrong, if you are a future focused person I don’t have any negative issue about you being one. But this is my blog so let us just focus on what I am, and not about what you are 🙂 haha.

Being a present type have negative and positive side. Individuals like me are capable of enjoying the moment and fairly resistant to worry or anxiety. Para saakin kasi the future will always be ahead of us, and whatever we do, it will always be one step away from us. Feel free from stress and live for a moment.

Because someday- before your eyes close, and your heart stops beating, the future that you predicted by your very own prophecy will basically be your past and your present without knowing that you are already there.  The existence of the future is always on thought. When it comes into actual existence, it is already the present moment. Fact is that past is gone and the future may never come, they are just distractions of what truly matters which is gift, the present, the current moment.

I am a positive person. Being positive isn’t about expecting things to happen every single time. But it is accepting that whatever happens is the best for every moment.

This blog will be able to show people how present will affect the lives of many. How the present show what you did in the past and affect the outcome of your so called “future”.

I wrote this blog to personally show how can we live more in the moment and not be drowned out by a cacophony of self-consciousness and anxiety. What I have observed in some people is that when they are not living in the moment they don’t know how and why they are still there.

  • Be happy. Always make your soul happy. I know that you already know how to be happy and what makes you happy. Do it. Go to a coffee shop. Sip. Think. And go for some walk. I am here for you and I want you to know that it is okay if you want to take your own time just to sit and do nothing.
  • Take your time. It is yours so don’t ask for someone’s permission to use it.
  • Use your money and your resources. Yes, if you have a 1000 pesos, and wanting to eat good food, spend the 800 pesos, that’s okay, after all that’s the reason why you want to save money, to eat good food, to go to a vacation, buy things that you want for your family and significant others and help others.

Get up! Today is the future you are dreaming 5 years ago. Let us live the lives that we are expecting from the past. Nothing happens next. Love the people around you. Give them what you already have. They have their own time limit. It is not a destination. This is it. We all already there.

I’m always looking for new challenges and new people to meet.

Don’t hesitate to drop me a line!